Kate

I agree with mynuet start out with the teacher first, but take someone with you to witness the talk. Someone other than Mer. I made the mistake of not taking someone with me when we had problems with one of Beth's teachers in Idaho. When the problems got worse, and Beth was suffering, I took it to the principle. We had a heated conversation the teacher in question, the principle, and I, but the principle sided with the teacher and told me that Beth was just hormonal. Yes, I pulled Beth out of the school, she lost a few friends, but she had a complete turn around and felt safer and better in the next school.